Hi, I’m Debby with a Y. I know, you won’t remember and I’ll get over myself. I’m from a family of story-tellers. Most of them funny, all embellished for effect and they seemed to shape my interest in hearing others share their stories and in sharing the stories known as life.
I’m also a wife, mama, MayMay, sister, daughter, recovering controlling person, music-lover, learner, listener, talker, laugher and generally loud person.
I say I love God and I do but it’s a daily battle to let go of my will and submit to his. I try to follow God’s directions to make my path straight but more times than not I wonder off the edges and find myself in need of His amazing grace.
In one of my favorite books, Messy Spirituality, Mike Yaconelli describes faith this way, “faith is the unbalancing force in our lives that is the fruit of God’s disturbing presence.” For me, life is viewed through a filtered lens called faith. My faith is placed in God. The God of the bible, the God of all, the God who is love.
My family is big and small, strewn across the country and I miss them all too much. My greatest joy and privilege is being mama to Heather and Jonathan and seeing them become wonderful adults with loving spouses and one delightful granddaughter. We laugh and cry together and find ourselves in the arms of a loving God sitting with us through it all.
My mama has dementia. She lives on the opposite side of the country and no longer remembers me or who her family is. Sometimes I write about this as I gather my thoughts and sort through the emotions of it all. I beg your grace as I find my way through this sadness and grief.
Recovery I am a grace-learner, having learned most of these grace lessons from our ministry in the recovery community. This is where my husband and I find ourselves, side-by-side, day after day, serving men in a 6-month residential program. These men have found life unmanageable, most due to substance abuse. As Heather Kopp says in her book Sober Mercies, “people bond more deeply over shared brokenness than they do over shared beliefs.” They have turned my boxed up faith into free-form and are the inspiration behind this blogs title: LivingInGraceland
The Salvation Army The Salvation Army has been our family church for generations. It became the church where we received our ordination, both of us, him and me, and it is through them our lives are spent serving others. It’s hard to separate this in a category as it overlaps much of our life but the posts I’ve written specifically about the ‘Army’ have been some of the most popular.
Me I’m learning to call myself a writer and artist. Depending on the day, these realizations are impossible or certain. I credit Brene Brown for any advancements I’ve made. They are only day by day.
We are blessed to be back in the area we call home, South Florida, where we’re at the beach most Saturday mornings, camera in one hand and Pepsi in the other. I am completely taken with photography and love shooting with my Nikon.
I am incredibly blessed to be part of the church of drop-outs, losers, sinners and fools. We are living in Graceland. There’s room for you to come along.